The Best T in the City

#PerfectFathersDayPresent, Fathers, what would you like this Father’s Day?

Fathers, what would you like this Father’s Day? Have you ever been asked what gift you would like to have on your special day? #PerfectFathersDayPresent #PerfectFathersDayPresent: What gift will you get a deserving father on Fathers Day? Who should be buying the gift, the kid or the mother? Fathers, why…

7 Jun 2021 5AM 22 min

#BeingGayEkasi What are (still) the challenges of being a member of the LGBTQI community, ekasi?

June is Global Pride Month. What are (still) the challenges of being a member of the LGBTQI community, ekasi? Is it easier in the burbs than ekasi? #BeingGayEkasi

3 Jun 2021 6AM 22 min

#DoesWinterAffectYourSexAppetite

Apparently, winter slows our sexual appetite. Have you paid attention to your sexual appetite during winter? Does it go up or down? Do you know what causes it? #DoesWinterAffectYourSexAppetite #DoesWinterAffectYourSexAppetite when do you fight the most with your partner? Research says couples fight a lot during winter, because of low…

2 Jun 2021 7AM 21 min

#ILiedAboutMyPartner Have you ever hidden the truth about your partner from your friends and family?

Have you ever hidden the truth about your partner from your friends and family because you didn’t want them to judge you? What was the haunting truth? #ILiedAboutMyPartner What is that one thing your friends and family would judge your partner for, hence you would #ILiedAboutMyPartner? #ILiedAboutMyPartner, did hiding the…

1 Jun 2021 6AM 17 min

#TheWeirdThingsPeopleDo What are some of the weird things you never thought people do?

Where have you've been and you were shocked at their practices, especially with their food combos? #TheWeirdThingsPeopleDo What are some of the things you never thought people do? What weird things did you grow up doing thinking its normal only to later realize that only your family do these things?…

31 May 2021 6AM 32 min

#TheHistoryOfThingsWeEnjoy Do you know the history behind some of your favourite things?

Do you know the history behind some of your favourite things? Should you find out that they have a dark history, will you continue using them? Or you don’t care as long as you enjoy using them? #TheHistoryOfThingsWeEnjoy What are your favourite things? Things you can't live without...do you know…

27 May 2021 6AM 17 min

My Top 10 @ 10 w/ Historian Ntombizikhona Valela

Born and raised eQonce, Ntombizikhona Valela studied at Rhodes University and did her undergrad majors in politics, English literature and history. Zikhona did her Masters in History on Winnie Madikizela-Mandela. She excelled at history at school level and so it became the field that she felt would make for a…

27 May 2021 5AM 37 min

BBW is this label #KeWinterStockSeason fair? how does it feel when your girl is referred to as winter stock?

BoDudlaFabulous, boBBW, are you getting action this year, compared to last year? Are your DMs getting busier since it is winter? Is it a fact that you are getting more attention around winter than any season of the year? #KeWinterStockSeason BBW is this label #KeWinterStockSeason fair? Are you dating a…

26 May 2021 6AM 22 min

Have you ever told a friend that they are the problem when it comes to relationships? What was their reaction?

If your friend is the problem, would you tell them? Have you ever told a friend that they are the problem when it comes to relationships? What was their reaction? OR have you been told that you are the problem? #KeWenaProblem Have you ever lost a friendship because your friend's…

25 May 2021 6AM 17 min

Why do we hate each other so much? #HaReRatane

Why do have so much self-hate as a people, as a country? We are always so quick to bring each other down instead of celebrating our wins. Why do we hate each other so much? #HaReRatane #HaReRatane....is there a cure to our Self-Hate? If Jealousy is the root cause of…

24 May 2021 7AM 24 min

BEST T IN THE CITY WITH STAND UP COMEDIAN SIYA SEYA 21 MAY 2020

SIYABULELA SEYA WAS THE NAME GIVEN TO HIM THE DAY HE WAS BORN IN MDANTSANE, EAST LONDON IN 1984. IT WAS IN 2002 WHEN HE GOT ON STAGE FOR THE 1 ST TIME TO SING HIS OWN KWAITO SONG BUT THE MICROPHONE WAS NOT CONNECTED THE ENTIRE PERFOMANCE. THIS WAS…

21 May 2021 9AM 1 hr 14 min

#MolaoWaKasi What are those unwritten rules about kasi? What are things you should Not do eKasi? What is a must-do?

When it comes to kasi, there are those unwritten rules we all abide by. Should you break them, you are labelled. What are those unwritten rules about kasi? What are things you should Not do eKasi? What is a must-do? #MolaoWaKasi

20 May 2021 6AM 23 min

#DoGuiltGiftsWork, Does buying guilt gifts work? Does it make it better or worse?

When words fail, Action Speak the Loudest, RIGHT? When words fail you, how do you say I’m sorry? #DoGuiltGiftsWork: Is buying guilt gifts work? Does it make it better or worse? What's the most expensive Guilt Gift you ever received, the Worst? #DoGuiltGiftsWork

18 May 2021 6AM 13 min

#WhyLeaveThingsForLastMinute Do you suffer from always doing things at the last minute? What has this cost you?

Do you suffer from always doing things at the last minute? What has this cost you? Or you know someone who suffers from this? #WhyLeaveThingsForLastMinute #WhyLeaveThingsForLastMinute: it is a problem of emotion regulation (managing emotions), not time management. Signs #WhyLeaveThingsForLastMinute: ☝️You have the best excuses in the world. ✌️You have…

17 May 2021 7AM 18 min

My Top 10 @ 10 with composer and singer-songwriter Msaki

Msaki is a composer and singer-songwriter from East London, South Africa. She was born in East London and grew up between East London, Butterworth, Grahamstown, Peddie, Nqamakhwe and Cathcart.

13 May 2021 8AM 37 min

Can One get addicted to being praised and validated? #AddictedToGettingApplause?

Everybody loves and enjoys support and encouragement, but what happens when you become #AddictedToGettingApplause? Can One get addicted to being praised and validated?

13 May 2021 8AM 16 min

#WomenHaveToShela but they are afraid of rejection. #WomenHaveToShela if they want a chance at love.

Ladies as you’ve noticed the dating pool is not in your favour. There are fewer men available to date. If you want to Jola, women must shoot their shot. #WomenHaveToShela if they want a chance at love. #WomenHaveToShela but they are afraid of rejection. Men: What's the worst thing a…

11 May 2021 7AM 23 min

What kind of girl is your mom? Describe her, as a friend, to a stranger. #MomAsOneOfTheGirls

The older we get the easier it gets to relate to our parents on a plutonic level, so it is even easier to see her as a friend. So, what kind of girl is your mom? Describe her, as a friend, to a stranger. #MomAsOneOfTheGirls #MomAsOneOfTheGirls, would you go clubbing…

10 May 2021 7AM 21 min

What #KasiRemedies hack do you swear by?

Kasi has life hacks for every problem, they’ve been passed on from generation to generation and have proven to work. What kasi hacks/remedies do you swear by? What problem do you need help with and you hope there’s a kasi life hack/remedy for it? #KasiRemedies

6 May 2021 7AM 23 min

#SkepaDiaries Were you ever caught? What lies did you tell at home about your whereabouts?

There is no kasi love story without #SkepaDiaries, spending the night at the boyfriend's house. The lies parents are told and the risks taken just to spend time with your lover. Were you ever caught? What lies did you tell at home about your whereabouts?

5 May 2021 7AM 20 min