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Ukukhuluma Nezingane Ngezimo Ezihlasimulisayo
Njengomzali ngingabhekana kanjani nengane yami ,ngezikhathi la khona kunobududu bobuqhuqhu bezibhamu,izimbubhane zemvelo, nezinye izimo ezihlasimulisayo ezingokuthatheka kwempilo ?Ngabe kumele ngenze okuseqophelweni ukubasitha kulololwazi-okuyinto engelula neze ngokwezindaba ezingena zilekanyana kwezokusakaza kulezinsuku? Kumbe ngizame ukukhulama nabo ngakho ?
Umphostoli Phawuli ngomshado nokuba wedwa
Kanti ibhayibheli alibuki yini umshado njengeqophelo eliphezulu lesibili ? Njengosemdala engashadile,angizwa neze kahle uma ngibona amakholwa egcizelela kangaka ubumqoka bomshado.Utadisho lwami lomlando lungiholela ekukholweni ukuthi ukuba wedwa kwakuvelele phambilini kunamanje.Izingcindezelo zokubuka kwesiko lamanje lisivala amehlo ukugqqama kwesitatimende sikaPhawuli : “Ngifisa sengathi bonke abantu benganjengami” [ 1KwabaseKhorinte 7: 7] .Ngikholwa ngumunxa…
Ukusebenzisa amaphilisi okuhlela inzalo emshadweni
Uthini umbono wenu ngokusebenzisa amaphilisi okuhlela ? Sisanda kushada sizama ukucabangisisa ngendlela eseqophelweni eliphezulu ukuthi siwabuke kanjani,kodwa sithola umyalezo ohlukene kubahlobo bethu,amalunga omndeni ,nodokotela.Omunye umzalwane esimaziyo ukholwa ukuthi naluhlobo luni lokuhlela umndeni lumelene necebo likaNkulunkulu. Asazi sicabange kuphi.
Umama akabazwile kahle abangani womkhwenyana wakhe
Yikuphi engingakwenza ngokungabi kwami nkamu nkamu ngabangane bomkhwenyana wami? Sithokozile futhi sisebudlelwaneni obuhle kakhulu,ngaphandle kwento eyodwa : angizwani nabangane bakhe.Ikhona indlela yokusombulula lenkinga? Isiholela ekuphikisaneni nongqubuzano
Ukuzibuza kaze uwakwakho wakuyeka ngempela ukukuhamba ngemumva
Ngingakholwa kanjani wukukuthi umnyeni wami usephendukile ebuhlungwini angidalele khona? Onyakeni owodwa odlule ,ngithole ukuthi sekube ngeside isikhathi esothandweni nomunye wesifazane ngenhliziyo ejulile.Unokhondolo futhi lokuvese aqhume ngokudinwa okugcina kuholela ekuhlukunyezekweni ngamagama.Kaninganyana engijikijela ngezinto . Nakuba esaphuma kulobubudlelwane bokungibhaqa ,kwathi ukwehlisa umoya wakhe ,waze wathi ufisa siyothola nabaluleki ukuze sikhande umshado wethu,konke…
Isehlukaniso nofa lwaso ezinganeni
Sisemalungiselelweni okuhlukanisa kodwa kubukeka kuza mawala emndenini wonke.Izingane zethu sezenza izinto ngendlela ehlukile.Ezinye zezindlela zazo ngalesimo zenza ngikhathazeke ngazo.Yikuphi okuthathwa njengokulindelekile nokuphilekayo nakho esimweni esinjengalesi ? Yikuphi okungenziwa ukubhekana naloludaba?”
Ukwehlisa amava engcindezi emndenini wakho
Ngingavika kanjani ubushudushudu bami nengcindezi ukuba bungabi nemithelela emibi kunkosikazi nasezinganeni zami? Kwanele ngokwakho ukubhekana nalemizwa edluntulanayo ,kodwa okomcabango wokuthi ngenza ibe nzima impilo yomndeni wami yiwo kanye okunzima ukuwuthwala.Ngenzenjani ?
Obaba bafundisa kanjani amadodakazi abo isizotha
Obaba bangasiza kanjani amadodakazi abo afunde isizotha ? Ngifuna indodakazi yami ikubambe lokhu phambi kokuba ibe yi- teenager.Kodwa ngizwa kuseceleni kimi ukukhuluma ngalesosihloko .Ngibona ukuthi kimi njengoyise ngingaba lusizo kuyo kulesisihloko kumbe ngibe wukuyidumaza, ingazizwa kahle.Yiliphi iqhaza eliqondile kubaba la?
Ukusiza oyisisulu sobhongoza kwezokuxhumana
Ngenze njani ngezingane ezithumela imiyalezo ephazamisanayo kwifoni yami ziphinde zithumele amahebezi angamanga ngami ku facebook? Ekuqaleni ngazama ukubaziba ,kodwa isimo sesidlulele okungangokuthi angisafune kulubhada esikoleni .Labantu bacekela phansi impilo yami!
Ingane yesaba uSathane
Ngingehlisa kanjani ukwesaba enganeni yami ngoSathane? Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa umtanami ona 5 uyaqhaqhazela ngalesihloko.Uhlale njalo ebuza imibuzo ngoSathane ,bese ebukeka ehlasimula ngalokhu angakwenza kuye.Uyaya kuSontoskole ,siyathandaza sifunde ibhayibheli sonke ndawonye.Okwamanje ,kubukeka konke lokho kungasizi .Ngizamile okusemandleni ukumqinisa,kodwa kumele ngivume ukuthi kwamina akukuningi engikwaziyo ngoSathane .Ningangitshela ngqo ukuthi zithini izibhalo ngaye
Inkambiso yokuziphatha kwengane esikhulile egunyeni labazali
Manje njengoba sengedlule ku 18 weminyaka ngiqhubeke ngithobe kumama nobaba? iBhayibheli lithi kumele izingane zilalele abazali bazo [ KwabaseFesu 6:1 ;kwabaseKolose 3 :20 ]manje kukusiphi isigaba lakhona ngizozimela ekulawulweni yibona?
Ukuhuheka kumngani wowakwakho
Ngingamtshela yini umnyeni wami ukuthi ngihuheka ngomngani wakhe oseduze naye ? Ngike ngezwa kuthiwa loluhlobo lolwazi lungaxoxwa abaganene ngenhloso yokuvulekelana ,nokho ngimanqika ukuthi kuwubuhlakani lokho .kulamadoda omabili akekho owaziyo ngofudulo lwami lwangaphakathi futhi angifuni ukulimaza ubungani babo.Ngenzenjani?
Umkhwenyana ongathembekile ufuna ukuba sothandweni nomunye wesifazane
Ngibhekane kanjani nokungethembeki komkhwenyana wami osekwenzeke ngokuphindaphindwa aze angiqonde angicele ngqo ukuthi ufuna ukuba nothando lwaseceleni nomunye wesifazane ? Yonke leminyaka umshado usube sesivunguvungwini .Ekugcineni nje useze wavuma ukuthi usothandweni nomunye ngasitha.Ngimthethelele ukuphinga kwakhe,kodwa manje uthi ufuna ukukhulisa ubudlelwano anabo bangaphandle ebe eqhubeka elayikhaya.Ngizimisele ukutakula umshado wethu ,nokho angifuni ukumchukuluza…
Umfana ona 3 udlala ngokugqoka izingubo nosisi bakhe
Ngingamvumela yini umfana wami ona 3 weminyaka ukuba adlale ngokugqoka izingubo nodadewabo ? Akajabuliswa nje kuphela ukugqoka amalokwe abo odadewabo ,kodwa uze agqoke nobucwebe bamantombazane.Kimi loluphawu alwehli kahle.Ngingalumisa kanjani
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli-Ubumqoka benkonzo yekamero emshadweni
Ngakube inkonzo iseqhulwini kangako emshadweni onempilo ? Nakhu okwenza ngibuze .Siyaphikisana nowakwami .Ungitshela ukuthi inkonzo ingcwele yisacramente futhi luyimfihlakalo engcwele ,nokuthi imelwe ukuba yindikimba yobudlelwano bethu .Uze asebenzise kwabaseFesu 5: 30-32 ukweyamisa lenkulumo yakhe.Angivumi mina,emva kwakho konke ,kuningi okungomshado ngaphezu kwenkonzo .Ngaphandle kwebhayibheli uqobo [1 Khorinte 7 :3-5] kubukeka lencwadi…
Ukupotshozela amalunga omndeni ngokudideka emshadweni wakho
Izinkinga nokudideka kwasemshadweni wami ngingakuxoxa yini nabazali bami nozalo ? Selokhu kwathi nhlo singumndeni onamathelene ,futhi bambalwa abantu engibathembayo.Umshado wethu awukho eziwenguwengwini ,koda nje kunezikhathi lakhona ngidinga ulekelelo lokuphefumula.Lokho kulungile yini
Ukulumbanisa Ukuhlupheka KoMkrestu nevesi ‘Konke kusebenzelana kube ngokuhle
Ubuhlungu nosizi kungaba kuhle kanjani? Kubukeka sengathi njalo uma aMaKhrestu exoxa ngalesihloko ,omunye uvese acaphune kwabase Roma 8 : 28 .Lelivesi liliqiniso ngempela ? Sengibone amaKhrestu ebhekana nezinhlupheko ezifanayo nabangakholwa ,imvamisa okuphetha kungaveli lutho oluhle ,kulokho okungokubuka kwami .Ningangisiza ukuqonda lempicabadala
Ingane esaba izinambuzane nokusamabhungane
Ngingayisiza kanjani ingane yami encane inqobe uvalo lwayo lwezinambuzane ? Ihlale yesaba amabhungane ,inkinga usanda kutinyelwa yinto esikoleni ngesikhathi sokudla,usevese avevezele uma kuwukuthi kumele i-classs liphume .Sithini isisombululo
Ubungani bobulili obuhlukene emshadweni
Kunecala yini koshadile ukuba nomngani wobulili obuhlukile ? Ngesikhathi umkhwenyana wami esohambweni lwesonto ,ngicele uzakwethu wesilisa emsebenzini ukuba azongisiza ngengane yami enonyaka nengxenye .Sagcina sesibuka i-TV nokusebenza eminye imisebenzi yasemsebenzini emva kokuthi lengane yami ibisilele.Ekubuyeni komkhwenyana wami ,uphatheke kabi ,wathi unovalo lokuthi ngingase ngishendeze .Ngokwakhe ubona kungenakwenzeka ukuba abantu abadala…
Ingane esencane eseyadlula ngokweba
Umfana wethu oneminyaka emine singammisa kanjani ukweba ? Kubukeka yonke indawo esiya kuyo ,isenkonzweni ,esitolo ,elibrary ,nasemakhaya abangani – uphuma esephethe into okungesiyo eyakhe .Nginomuzwa othi uphethwe ukunganaki ,kokuvese afake utho ephaketheni bese eyakhohlwa .Mina nomkhwenyana wami sesikhulume naye kaningana ukuthi kungani kukubi lokhu kuziphatha .Simtshelile ukuthi lithini ibhayibheli ngokweba…