What would Shai do?

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Hi Shai_Quan
I recently heard you talking about compatibility in relationships on radio and it struck a cord!

It's so hard letting go of people we love even though they are not meant for us or good for us.

Here's my reality. I have been with my lady for over 7 years. Every time I want to go the next step something inside me always tells me NOT TO. It has come to a point now where she puts pressure on me (for the next step).

But after your talk on radio, I am convinced that we are not compatible. The person I am with now is not the person I fell in love with. I mean i know life happens but I am not sure I want to do life with her anymore.

I do not want to hold us both back, how do I have the conversation with her? How would I know its the right decision?

Shai_Quan...what would you have done?
9 Jun 2023 English South Africa News · Music

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