MICRO EP: Fashion as creative expression

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This micro episode is a fun experiment where I channel Bella Freud's "Fashion Neurosis" podcast to explore my own relationship with clothing and style. I dive into why fashion fascinates me as both a psychologist and a human being.
I explore clothing as a form of creative expression - like collaging with objects, colors, textures, and forms. It's a sensory and sensual experience that connects us to our material existence in this world. Fashion becomes a way to communicate identity, show which groups we belong to, and sometimes shield vulnerable parts of ourselves that don't feel safe.
I also confess to completely conforming to the psychologist stereotype of wearing lots of knitwear and cardigans. There's something about the maternal texture of knits - that cozy, warm embrace quality - that I hope translates into my therapeutic work. Sometimes embracing the superficial alongside the deep makes us more fully human.

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Chapters
  • 00:14 Fashion Neurosis experiment - blending psychoanalysis and fashion
  • 01:07 "Deep down I'm pretty superficial" - embracing both depth and surface
  • 02:30 Fashion as creative expression - clothing as collage
  • 02:58 Sensory and sensual experience of getting dressed
  • 03:45 Fashion for identity and belonging - showing who we are and aren't
  • 04:51 Dressing to shield vulnerable parts - fashion as protection
  • 05:26 Conforming to psychologist stereotype - love of knitwear
  • 06:03 Maternal texture and cozy embrace - how clothing translates to therapy
  • 06:41 Short episode conclusion
10 Sep English Explicit South Africa Self-Improvement · Relationships

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