
Woman's Conference - Arise Make Room 2025 - Session 3 with Alette Winckler
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Hannah's Prayer: A Shocking Revelation
Alette shared how the worship song "Hannah's Prayer" led her to research the biblical story. Hannah prayed for a child, promising to dedicate him to God. When Samuel was weaned—approximately three years old—Hannah left him at the temple with Eli, a stranger, visiting only once yearly.
Alette was overwhelmed thinking about the trauma: a toddler screaming as his mother leaves him in an unfamiliar place. She wondered if God was saying, "You make issues out of everything. Get over yourselves."
The Life-Changing Revelation
Walking with her son the next day, the Holy Spirit spoke: "He grew up in My presence. In My presence, there's fullness of joy. There is no lack, no issues, no wounds."
The answer to every struggle is the presence of the Lord.
Make Room in Your Womb
Session 1: "Make room for the groom." Session 2: "Make room in your womb." Your womb is where life comes from, where dreams are birthed, where calling manifests. Without making room for the Holy Spirit to heal wounds, you can't step into destiny.
The Family-Trinity Connection
Alette taught a critical principle: there's direct correlation between earthly family and experiencing the Trinity:
Father = God the Father (protection, provision, identity)
Mother = Holy Spirit (nurturer, comforter, teacher)
Siblings/friends = Jesus (companion, friend)
If your father was absent, you'll struggle believing God can protect you. If your mother didn't nurture, you'll struggle experiencing the Holy Spirit as comforter. The enemy attacks these relationships early to plant lies about God.
The Power of His Presence
Key scriptures: Psalm 84:10 - "Better is one day in Your courts than a thousand elsewhere." Psalm 16:11 - "In Your presence there is fullness of joy." In His presence, obstacles dissolve like wax. Mountains become tiny when you realize how great your God is.
Breaking the Orphan Spirit
During financial struggle while building their house, Alette operated in performance mode—striving to earn God's favor. Her husband said, "You're acting like an orphan, not a child of God."
Through worship, God spoke: "You don't have to do a thing. Simply be with Me." She had a vision of herself as a little girl jumping on God's lap. Instantly healed from orphan spirit.
An orphan performs to earn their place. A child knows they belong.
God's Faithfulness
When they desperately needed money, God spoke through Isaiah 54:2: "Enlarge your tent." Her brother-in-law in the Netherlands, who knew nothing of their struggle, called saying God told him to help. He paid hundreds of thousands in invoices—interest-free, payable whenever.
Psalm 27:13: "I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living."
The Altar Call
Alette closed with a powerful call to forgiveness. Forgive your father, mother, siblings for whatever they did or didn't do. This releases YOU from bondage—God is your vindicator.
You cannot step into your calling with undealt hurts. But on the other side is beauty for ashes—the divine exchange.
The presence of the Lord is essential. Say "Come Holy Spirit" daily. You have an unfair advantage in business, parenting, marriage. Whatever you're facing will melt like wax in His presence.
Key message: Make room in your womb for Him to birth dreams, heal wounds, and fulfill destiny.
Alette shared how the worship song "Hannah's Prayer" led her to research the biblical story. Hannah prayed for a child, promising to dedicate him to God. When Samuel was weaned—approximately three years old—Hannah left him at the temple with Eli, a stranger, visiting only once yearly.
Alette was overwhelmed thinking about the trauma: a toddler screaming as his mother leaves him in an unfamiliar place. She wondered if God was saying, "You make issues out of everything. Get over yourselves."
The Life-Changing Revelation
Walking with her son the next day, the Holy Spirit spoke: "He grew up in My presence. In My presence, there's fullness of joy. There is no lack, no issues, no wounds."
The answer to every struggle is the presence of the Lord.
Make Room in Your Womb
Session 1: "Make room for the groom." Session 2: "Make room in your womb." Your womb is where life comes from, where dreams are birthed, where calling manifests. Without making room for the Holy Spirit to heal wounds, you can't step into destiny.
The Family-Trinity Connection
Alette taught a critical principle: there's direct correlation between earthly family and experiencing the Trinity:
Father = God the Father (protection, provision, identity)
Mother = Holy Spirit (nurturer, comforter, teacher)
Siblings/friends = Jesus (companion, friend)
If your father was absent, you'll struggle believing God can protect you. If your mother didn't nurture, you'll struggle experiencing the Holy Spirit as comforter. The enemy attacks these relationships early to plant lies about God.
The Power of His Presence
Key scriptures: Psalm 84:10 - "Better is one day in Your courts than a thousand elsewhere." Psalm 16:11 - "In Your presence there is fullness of joy." In His presence, obstacles dissolve like wax. Mountains become tiny when you realize how great your God is.
Breaking the Orphan Spirit
During financial struggle while building their house, Alette operated in performance mode—striving to earn God's favor. Her husband said, "You're acting like an orphan, not a child of God."
Through worship, God spoke: "You don't have to do a thing. Simply be with Me." She had a vision of herself as a little girl jumping on God's lap. Instantly healed from orphan spirit.
An orphan performs to earn their place. A child knows they belong.
God's Faithfulness
When they desperately needed money, God spoke through Isaiah 54:2: "Enlarge your tent." Her brother-in-law in the Netherlands, who knew nothing of their struggle, called saying God told him to help. He paid hundreds of thousands in invoices—interest-free, payable whenever.
Psalm 27:13: "I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living."
The Altar Call
Alette closed with a powerful call to forgiveness. Forgive your father, mother, siblings for whatever they did or didn't do. This releases YOU from bondage—God is your vindicator.
You cannot step into your calling with undealt hurts. But on the other side is beauty for ashes—the divine exchange.
The presence of the Lord is essential. Say "Come Holy Spirit" daily. You have an unfair advantage in business, parenting, marriage. Whatever you're facing will melt like wax in His presence.
Key message: Make room in your womb for Him to birth dreams, heal wounds, and fulfill destiny.





