Memories over margins: The emotional calculus of installing a pool

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Should every big life decision be optimised purely for the spreadsheet?
In this episode, our middle-aged family man dives into the highly emotive subject of installing a swimming pool. He acknowledges the classic arguments - cost, hassle, maintenance - and applies a practical perspective, explaining his deliberate financial calculus (utilising the home loan) to avoid depleting cash reserves.
The key lesson, however, is the emotional return on investment. We explore how the pool serves as an automatic creator of family respite and joy, demonstrating that sometimes, the true purpose is to alleviate the daily grind by fostering family connection.
From watching the physical effort required for construction to making the final deliberate choice, this is a reminder that the best decisions often weigh memories over margins.
18 Nov 6AM English South Africa Society & Culture · Society & Culture

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