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Living the good times, not reminiscing them

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Is it possible to live the "good old days" right now, even when chaos reigns?
In this reflective episode, our host tackles the organised mayhem of hosting a sleepover for twelve post-exam boys. From the deliberate planning of the braai and the pool fun, to the sacrifice of "lights out" calls at 2 am, he shares the reality of parental endurance.
The key takeaway is realising that the actual value of life isn't found in reminiscing, but in living the good times right now. Discover why we must embrace the current chaos and extract the laughs and memories that truly matter.
This is a reminder to switch your narrative: These are the good days.
24 Nov 11PM English South Africa Society & Culture · Society & Culture

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