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The comparison trap: Excellence at your own speed

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Is there a "right" time to become great? This week on The Jabber, we dive into the polarising paths of Tiger Woods and Roger Federer to discuss the dangers of the comparison trap. Whether you’re a ‘specialist’ who starts early or a ‘generalist’ finding your way, we explore why excellence is about personal determination rather than keeping up with the person next to you. A reminder for every parent and professional: your speed is the right speed.
21 Jan 11PM English South Africa Society & Culture · Society & Culture

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