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Asking For A Friend: My boyfriend wants to wait for marriage and I don’t

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What do you do when your partner wants to wait until marriage and you don't?

Well, this is this week's Asking for a Friend predicament.

Anonymous wrote to 'Breakfast with Martin Bester and said her boyfriend wants to wait until marriage before they have sex, but she doesn't want to.

The Breakfast team, listeners and even comedian Schalk Bezuidenhout weighed in on the issue.

7 Jul 2AM English South Africa News Commentary · Entertainment News

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