Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Imithetho yokuziphatha ngendlela komndeni oxubile
Sinquma kanjani ukuthi abantu babizwe ngamaphi amagama emndenini wethu omusha oxubile? Umshado wesibili lo kimi nakumnyeni wami ,sobabili sinezingane ezino 3 weminyaka esashada .Lezingane sezizikuleyominyaka.Sezino 6 manje enye ino 7 .Mumva nje indodakazi yakhe isiqale ukungibuza ngo Mah.Ekuzweni kwalowo wesifazane owayagane lomnyeni wami kumphathe kabi lokho.Nathi samchazela, sethuke njengaye,njengokuba lomndeni…
Osangena ebudaleni uzizwa engenathemba ngomshado
Njengoba imishado yonke iphetha ngokudivoza kungani kumele ngizikhathaze nokubophana nefindo ? Kunzima ukuphika isiphetho sokuthi isakhiwo somshado sesiphumile ubusona kulezinsuku ,asisasho lutho.Kukhona eningangitshela khona ukuguqula umqondo wami?
Ukulingwa umthandazo nokuqapha kwamoya
Uma ngithandaza uNkulunkulu ngeke yini angivikele ekulingweni ? Nasi isizathu sokubuza kwami .Nakuba ngingazi ubungozi obungaseduze nomshado wami ngokwempilo yawo ,nokho ngisenovalo ,ukuthi ndlelana thizeni ,ngisengashelelela ngiwele ekuphingeni .Ngisanda kuzwa indoda ivuma ukuthi iwele kulesilingo nanxa ibithembekile emshadweni wayo ,nakuba ibizame kaningi ithandazela ukungaweli esonweni socansi .Lokho kungesabisile.Kungani uNkulunkulu enqabe…
Ukukhetha ozoshada naye
Nginikeni uhla oluphathekayo ekuboneni ongaba ngumkhwenyana .Ngiqapheleni phambi kokuzibophezela ngithi :”I do’?
Isithembu nokuthandwa ngabaningi - indlela yokubuka yezwi
Kungani ngingamukeleki ukuba nomndeni ozisekelo zayo yizwi uma kuwukuthi ngithandana nabaniningi besifazane ? Amadoda anqala ezwini –oAbraham Jakobe,Davide noSolomon –babenamakhosikazi amaningi .Ngokubuka iministry yenu egxilile ezwini ,angiboni lutho olwenza nimelane nezinto ezinjengesithembu nezingodosi .Ngizibona nginguMkhrestu othanda ukuba nezingodosi .Ngithanda abesifazane abathe xaxa ngesibalo impela ,akukho sizathu esingenza singakwazi ukwakha isisekelo…
Amantombazane nabasefazane ekugqokweni kwamabhulukwe
Ngingalivumela itshitshi lami ligqoke ibhulukwe? Ngakhuliswa ekhaya labazalwane abanomthetho lakhona kwakaugcizelelwa ukugqoka ngesizotha kwamantombazane. Ukusho ngqo ,uMawami wangenza ngiqonde ukuthi amantombazane akumele agqoke ibhulukwe ,” owesifazane makangagqoki okwendoda ,nendoda mayingembathi ingubo yowesifazane ,ngokuba yilowo nalowo okwenza lokho uyisinengiso kuJehova uNkulunkulu wakho” [Dut 22:5] .Kulezinsuku abesifazane sebegqoke amabhulukwe –hhayi nje ekhaya…
Ukuxoxa nomuntu omusha ngokuzibulala komngani wakhe kumbe amjwayele
‘Ngixoxe kanjani nomfana wami osemusha ,mayelana nomngani wakhe osanda kuzibulala ? Lowomfana bebengaphezu kokujwayelwana naye ,manje ngiyazi lesisenzo siwuphulile umoya womfana wami ngokujulile.Ningangisiza ukungicija ukubeka kahle lesihloko kuye ?’
Ukulingwa umthandazo nokuqapha kwamoya
Uma ngithandaza uNkulunkulu ngeke yini angivikele ekulingweni ? Nasi isizathu sokubuza kwami .Nakuba ngingazi ubungozi obungaseduze nomshado wami ngokwempilo yawo ,nokho ngisenovalo ,ukuthi ndlelana thizeni ,ngisengashelelela ngiwele ekuphingeni .Ngisanda kuzwa indoda ivuma ukuthi iwele kulesilingo nanxa ibithembekile emshadweni wayo ,nakuba ibizame kaningi ithandazela ukungaweli esonweni socansi .Lokho kungesabisile.Kungani uNkulunkulu enqabe…
Ingane Esencane Ehlikihla Isitho Iketelo
Ngakube akwejwayelekile kumbe kungukungabi nankambo ukuba umfana wami ede ezithinta isingasese sakhe edlalisa iketelo? Kukaningi ngimbamba enza lomdlalo ekhaya ,kukodwa kusemphakathini.Ngenze njani?
Ukuqonda Ukuzisika Kwalaba asebancane
Ngenze njani emkhubeni wokuzisika kwendodakazi yami ? Ngisanda kuthola mumva nje ukuthi unomkhuba wokuzisika .Ngizamile ukumtshela lokhu kuyangikhathaza .Ngize ngamtshela ngicela ukuziphathela lesisimo ngokwami.Kodwa uvese agcwale ukugxeka nokungangethembi.Ngivese ngamthembisa ukumshiya kanjalo ,kodwa ngamvulela umnyango ukuthi uma engidinga angithinte uma nje sewufika lomoya wokuzisika engqondweni.Nicabanga kukhona esingakwenza naye ukulungisa lesisimo ?…
Intombazanyana Efuna Usizo Emva kokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi
Ngisanda nje kuba yisisulu sokudlwengulwa .Ngiludinga kakhulu usizo kodwa angazi ngizoluthola kuphi –yikuphi okumele ngikwenze ? Angikaze ngixoxele abazali bami futhi akekho owaziyo .Nginamahloni ukuvuleka ngalokhu emndenini nakubangani ,futhi ngesaba ukuthi sizobe ngesedlulele isimo uma ngiyobika emaphoyiseni.Khona manjalo ,ngizizwa ngingcolile ,nginecala,ngingelutho ,ngixakekile ngesaba kakhulu kwakuba kukhona na umnyakazo engingawenza.
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni - (Part 2 of 2)
Ningangihola ekutheni ngintweza kanjani emcabangweni wokuqhelelana emshadweni? Umshado wami kade waqala ukuhlaselwa wukuhuzuka .Okugcine ngokuba sifike esiphethweni sokuthi –simelwe ukuqhelelana okwesikhasahana –okuyinto ebuhlungu leyo .Ngeqiniso angazi ngempela noma lomshado wethu uzosinda, kodwa ngenxa yezingane zethu nokuphumula kwengqondo, simelwe ukungena kulesinqumo . Sitshele bani? Sobabili singaxhumana ndlelani ngesikhathi sisahlukene?Ezezimali nokunye sibhekana…
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni - ( Part 1 of 2)
Ningangihola ekutheni ngintweza kanjani emcabangweni wokuqhelelana emshadweni? Umshado wami kade waqala ukuhlaselwa wukuhuzuka .Okugcine ngokuba sifike esiphethweni sokuthi –simelwe ukuqhelelana okwesikhasahana –okuyinto ebuhlungu leyo .Ngeqiniso angazi ngempela noma lomshado wethu uzosinda, kodwa ngenxa yezingane zethu nokuphumula kwengqondo, simelwe ukungena kulesinqumo . Sitshele bani? Sobabili singaxhumana ndlelani ngesikhathi sisahlukene?Ezezimali nokunye sibhekana…
Ukuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese II
Ngakube kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni uma ngihuhwa ngubulili bunye ? Sekube nezigaba lakhona nginenjula mizwa ngomuntu wobulili bunye.Kaninganyana ngize ngiluthekele ukuzihuqa kuye.Ngikhungathekile futhi angazi ngiwuthini lomcabango .Ningangisiza?
Ukuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese I
Ngakube kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni uma ngihuhwa ngubulili bunye ? Sekube nezigaba lakhona nginenjula -mizwa ngomuntu wobulili bunye.Kaninganyana ngize ngiluthekele ukuzihuqa kuye.Ngikhungathekile futhi angazi ngiwuthini lomcabango .Ningangisiza?
Ukuhlukana koMzali neNgane okwesikhashana
Ngakube kube lula yini kimi ukushiya ingane yami nomzanyane kumbe ngiyishiye enkulisa amahora ? Ngisengumzali omusha ,kangikazi noma kunempilo yini ukuhlukanisa ingane yami nami kube yisikhashana .Kuthini ukubona kwenu kulokhu?
Ukuhlola Izifo Zocansi Kongathembekile Emshadweni
Ngakube uwakwakho oseke waphinga ahlolelwe izifo ezithathelana ngocansi ? Umkhwenyana wami phambilini ,ukunqamulile ukuphinga kwakhe ,kumanje sisemsebenzini wokubuyisana .Sisagxoba amalahle njengamanje ,futhi kangifuni ukwenza sengathi ngide ngimhilela ngezinto okungathi angimthethelele.Khona manjalo futhi angikholwa ukuthi okungikhathazayo kuyinto yokuzitshwa .Ngenzenjani?
Ukululama Enhliziyweni Emva Kwesimo Esibuhlungu
Ngingathola kanjani ukululama ekuhlasimuleni komzimba nosizi ? Inyanga yonke edlule ngakithi sibhekane nezikhukhula ezibuhlungu.Thina nje silahlekelwe yikhaya ,ukuphazamiseka kwesikole nomsebenzi okuchaza ukuma kweholo ,ukusambatheka ngekusasa.Manje njengokuba lokho sekwedlule ,sisagotshiswe amadlangala kwenye indawo ,siyimindeni,sengiqale ukubona ukuthi sisazophila nobuhlungu balesikhukhula eside isikhathi lesi .Ningangisiza ukudondolozela kulomqansa?
Ukuzilungiselela Ikhaya Eligengqezayo
Yikuphi esidinga ukukwenza ukulungiselela ukuhamba kwengane yethu engumagcina? Ekupheleni kwalonyaka uyasishiya useyoqala izifundo eziphakeme zakhe ,bese thina sisale sodwa layikhaya .Sengike ngezwa ukuthi abashadikazi abasezingeni lethu babhekana nengcindezi futhi bagcine abanye sebehlukanisa.Singazilungisela kanjani loluguquko futhi sigweme nezikhisi esingaphonseka kuzo?
Izizathu ukulubekela Imfundo Ephakeme
Kungani kumele ngiye e University ? Indlela mina engibuka ngayo ,amakolishi awabumbi isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuba sibe abadala abanokhiqhizo nobuholi,lokho okungasizi mfundi ukufinyelela ezimpokophelweni zakhe .Kungani uzicwilise ezikweletini ngenxa nje yokuthi kunomuntu olindele ube neziqu ? Kungani uchithe iminyaka yakho emide usebenzela ucwezu lwephepha nje ologcina lukubeka ezingeni lokuhola okufanayo nongenalo?…