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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Abazali abakhathazekile ngentombazane ekhonze imidlalo yabafana
Ngakube kumele ngikhathazeke ukuthi indodakazi hleze ayizazi ubulili bayo ngoba ithanda ukugqoka njengomfana ,ikhonze nokudlala ibhola noyise ? Emva kokubuka uhlelo lukamabonakude ngalesihloko ,kungenze ngazibuza kunokwenzeka yini kukhona okunye okungale kulokhuthanda izinto zabafana kwayo .Nicabanga idinga ululeko?
Umkhwenyana ozibuza ngakube abambe iqhaza lokuba ngumama
Kukhona oku-wrong ngobaba abahlala ekhaya? Njengamanje angisebenzi kanti nonkosikazi wami uhola kahle ,lokho okwenza ngibone kungcono nginakekele ikhaya nabantwana .Ngisaqala kwakubukeka kungumqondo omuhle kodwa manje senginongabazane.
Umkhwenyana olulama okikanetelweni lwe-Porn ,akasemashushu ngenkonzo
Kuyinjwayelo yini ukuba umkhwenyana okade ezicwilise ezithombeni zobunqunu ,qede angabe esaba nolangazelelo oluseduze emshadweni? Mina nomnyeni wami sekuphele izinyanga eziwu 8 singayi enkonzweni yekamero.Uyazi ngiyalangazelela ukuba kuyona ,kodwa yena useyisibhocobhoco kuyona.Ngisola kuthinta udaba lobudlelwano abe nabo online ,kanjalo nange porn nokho usesohambweni lokulapheka kuyona.Ngizizwa ngingolahliwe .Ngingasiguqula kanjani lesisimo?
OGogo noMkhulu abalekelela Omama nobaba abamatasa
Ngakube thina njengoGogo ,simelwe yini ukuthatha isikhala sobuzali kubazukulu ? Undodana wami nomakoti bayasebenza futhi bahlale bematasa ngokwevile.Ngiye ngizithole nekhehla lami sesithatha iqhaza lobuzali esikhundleni sabo ukuze bone babhekane nobutasa bemisebenzi yabo.Siyakujabulela ukuba nabazukulu futhi sibe lusizo ngalendlela .Kodwa kwesinye isikhathi ngiba nomuzwa wongabazane .Nicabanga ukuthi lokhu kuluhlelo oluhle?
Ukugudluza Ingcindezi Yokuqeqesha ingane isigcozi
Ngakube ukufundisa ingane isigcozi kuyinto ehlale inzima neyinselelo? Sinesikhathi sizama ukuqeqesha undodana wethu kusukela aba neminyaka ewu 2.Kuze kube manje sisahluleka ukuwina lokho okwenyuse ingcindezi ekhaya ngamalengiso.Emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa sisahluleka namanje .Ngakube lokhu kujwayelekile?
Ukuqondisa Izigwegwe Enganeni Engekho kunyathela kunye
Yini engingayenza ukwenza indodana yami ithobele okushiwoyo yenze ngokulalela? Indodana yethu encane inenkani ,ulibeka nayo ilibeke.Ayiwenzi umsebenzi wayo wesikole futhi ayifuni noku cleaner ekamerweni layo.Uma sizama ukuxoxa nayo ngaloludaba ngomoya ophansi siphetha sesiphakamisa amaphimbo .Yini esingayenzi kahle ?
Imicabango Ngomama Abasebenzayo
Ninalo ukhuthazo ngomama abaqashwe ngaphandle kwekhaya ? Ngiyazi ukuthi iFocus On The Family izipha isikhathi ukugqugquzela omama abahlala ekhaya eqhazeni labo ,kodwa ngiyazibuza kazi ninalo na usizo kulabo bethu okubiza betshathe izikhwama njalo ekuseni beya emsebenzini ukuze izindleko zekhaya zifezeke.
Akathembekanga Umlisa Obukipite Naye
Ngenze njani ngobaba wengane ebengihlala naye ongikhohlisile ? Sesihlale ndawonye iminyaka emininganyana ,manje ngisanda kuthola ukuthi ubexoxa ngemiqhafazo ezothando nomunye umngani wami .Uma ngimqonda ngqo ,uthe kube yimi imbangela .Emva kwalokho wangilaxaza nengane yethu ,wayozihlalela noyise kubo .Lokho sengingathekisa ukuthi kungifaka ekubeni ngumzali oyedwana.Ngizizwa ngishiwe esiqhingini ngilimele.Ngenze njani ?
Ngisehluleka ukulala nowakwami mbhedemunye emva kokuthi wayengathembekanga
Ngakube ukuthi ngisehluleka ukulala nomnyeni wami mbhede munye ,emva kokuthi ngathola wayekade eneshende ,kuchaza ukuthi angikamthetheleli ? Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngisanda kuthola ukuthi usethandane nomunye wesifazane ngokungaphezu kweminyaka ewu 4.Ubuhlungu ngalokho akwenza ,futhi usebunqamulile ubudlelwane babo ,kodwa ngezizathu thizeni ngikuthola kunzima ukusondela kuye.Lokho kumdida ingqondo aze athi kushukuthi angikamthetheleli.Uze athi kungcono…
Uwakwakho Ubhema Igudu
Nicabanga akulungile ukuba umnyeni abheme insangu? Useneminyaka eyisebenzisa kusuka sashada ,unendlela yakhe yokuyibhema eyenza ngingaboni iyinkinga nokuthi abantu abaningi bathi ayinalo ukinatelo [addiction].Kodwa manje usedlebelendile ekuyisebenziseni ngisho naphambi kwezingane umthola eseyiphafuza.Okwenza ngiqale ukungabaza manje.Nicabanga sekuludaba olubucayi lolu ? Nokuthi ngenze njani?
Izimpawu Zokukinatelwa Ngama –video Nama-computer Game
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi senginenkinga enqala ngama electronic nama –online games? Ngingavuma ngikukhonzile ukudlala .Mangiphuma emsebenzini njalo ntambama ngiya kuma electronic games ami .Yindlela yami yokuphumuza ingqondo emva kosuku belusinda.Inkinga ekhona eyodwa ngukuthi ngishadile ,ngingubaba ,manje unkosikazi wami useqala ukukhalaza .Wangitshela ngolunye usuku ukuthi sengikinatelwe ama-game.Iyenzeka into enjalo kodwa?
Ukuvala Isikhala se-Porn Ngezithombe Zocansi Zonkosikazi
Ngakube kulungile yini ukuba indoda isebenzise izithombe zomkayoezithathwe nge –cell phone ezivusa imizwa yocansi ,ngenhloso yokubibiyela eze -porn ezivuthisa umzimba,futhi ngicabange lokhu kungangisiza ngidlule kulenkinga.Yikuphi enikucabangayo ngalomqondo wami ?
Ingane Ekhetha Ukudla
Singenza kanjani ukuthi umaqhenyane wengane yethu ena -4 idle konke esiyinika khona? Ukukhetha kwakhe ukudla sekusinyusela ushukela phela manje.Kaningi simnqabela ama kip kip kodwa siyabona ngesidlo santambama uwazungeza yonke indawo.Mina ngibona lokhu kukhetha kwakhe kuluphawu lokungalaleli kodwa uyise yena usaba ukuthi uma sikwenza kuba ludaba kuzokwenza angadli kakhulu kunakuqala.Senzenjani ?
Ukushiya Umsebenzi Uzoba NguMama Onakekela Ikhaya
Ninakho eningakuphakamisa ngomama ofuna ukushiya i-career yakhe obeyenza full time oseyohlala nezingane zakhe? Yikuphi engingakwenza ukuqiniseka lezingunquko ngizenza kamtoti emndenini ?
Usizo koGogo Abakhulisa Abazukulu
Ninalo ululeko kugogo nomkhulu ababhekene nokukhulisa umzukulu wabo ? Abazukulu bethu ababili bahlala nathi futhi cishe kuzoba ngeside isikhathi .Singabenza kanjani bezizwe besekhaya elifudumele ngaphandle kokukhathala kwengqondo kithi?
Amahlaya Anobuhle Emndenini
Singathokozela kanjani ingxenye yempilo yokulula ingqondo ekhaya ngamahlaya amahle aswabukilisayo ? Iningi labangani bethu lithola ukuswabuluka ngokuhleka ezintweni engizithola zingezinhle.Ningaphakamisa amahlaya ahlanzekile emndenini ?
Imiphi iFocus On The Family Ngomshado Nesahlukaniso
Umlaleli usibhalele umbuzo othi iFocus On The Family imi kuphi ngesahlukaniso nokuphinda ushade?
Izinsika zezibhalo zokuvikela ukuphila koluntu
Kukuphi lakhona ibhayibheli likhuluma ‘ngobungcwele bempilo yoluntu”? Ngiyezwa nje leligama selivelele ,ngokuqhubeka ngilizwa ,yila khona nencazo yalo ngingayitholi .Umzekelo omuhle ,yila khona ngihlale ngizwa ebandleni,emisakazweni nezinhlangano ezilwela ukuphila zisebenzisa leligama.Nanxa kunjalo kodwa angiziboni sengiliqonda kahle nokuthi liqhamuke kanjani .Ikhona insika yebhayibheli engalomqondo?
Ukumbula ukuphinga kunkosikazi wendoda ebingazi ngomnyeni wayo
Iyiphi indlela engcono ukwembula uthando lwangasese emva kokuthi uwakwakho sewazihlanza kulolodaba kodwa inkinga kube ngukuthi umkhwenyana kumbe unkosikazi wendoda engumenzi akazi ? Unkosikazi wami nenye indoda ebandleni babe sebudlelwaneni iminyaka engaphezu kwengu 4 ,ngize ngathola ezinyangeni eziwu 3sekwenzeka .Unkosikazi sewabunqamula lobobudlelwano futhi sase siyokhonza kwelinye ibandla .Sisalungisa lezi londa ezibhibhayo…
Ukulungisela ukukhishwa ejele kowakwakho
Ninazo iziluleko zowesifazane omkhwenyana wakhe usezophuma ejele?Umnyeni wami ubetoke iminyaka emithathu,usezobuya ngenyanga ezayo.Ngilangazelele ukubuya kwakhe ,ngibe sebudlwaneni obumnandi isibili naye ,kodwa khona lapho futhi ngizizwa nginovalo.Angikwazi ngqo ngqo engingakulindela.Ningangisiza?