"I was married for 18 years and he cheated on me with my best friend" - Bianca, listener

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Tamlyn* (name has been changed to protect her identity) has found herself in a relationship with a married man.

She has always known that the man she was seeing was spoken for but it didn't seem to stop her.

Now Tamlyn is finding herself feeling guilty.

She needs advice so she came to Stacey and J Sbu with the hopes of finding some clarity.

Listener Bianca has some very important advice for Tamlyn, who had been through something similar herself.
3 Nov 2021 English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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