The Power of Boundaries: Why Kids Need Firm but Loving Limits

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Lauren Edmunds discusses the importance of setting firm, consistent boundaries for children—especially those with anxiety or control-related behaviors. Using the metaphor of a bouncing castle, she explains how children need structure to feel safe and secure. Without clear rules, their world can feel unpredictable and overwhelming. She shares a real-life example of children testing their limits and highlights how parents can maintain firm yet compassionate boundaries. By staying regulated, empathetic, and consistent, parents can help children develop emotional resilience and a sense of security that lasts into adulthood.
10 Mar English South Africa Education · Self-Improvement

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