Radio Pulpit Heart to Heart

How to prepare for the marriage 2.

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Sibongile Mofokeng wraps up with Advocate Rufus Malatji, discussing the crucial difference between a marriage and a wedding. While a wedding is a ceremony celebrating the union, marriage is the ongoing relationship and commitment shared by partners. Advocate Malatji highlights the reality of discovering unexpected challenges in marriage, such as feelings of being unloved or entering an accidental union. He stresses the importance of serious counseling to manage emotional shocks and strengthen the relationship, helping couples navigate difficulties beyond the wedding day. This guidance aims to prepare couples for the lifelong journey of marriage, not just the celebration.
27 Nov 2025 3AM English South Africa Christianity · Christianity

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