Things People Pretend Don’t Matter… But Do

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We think love is built in big moments — but it’s actually built in tiny ones.
The way they listen. The way they respond. The way they notice you.

Small things don’t look powerful… until they repeat.
2 Mar 4AM English South Africa Music Commentary · Society & Culture

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