Leadership is not a solo act: Helena Dolny and Totsie Memela-Khambula on support and mentorship

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No one gets to the top alone.
In this episode of When Shift Happens, Saray Khumalo sits down with Dr Helena Dolny and Totsie Memela-Khambula to explore the role of support, mentorship, and community in shaping strong leadership.
From moments of crisis to career-defining decisions, they reflect on the people who stepped in, stood alongside them, and helped them navigate the hardest climbs.
It’s a conversation about leadership that goes beyond performance. One that centres emotional intelligence, trust, and the understanding that real progress is rarely a solo journey.

Dr Helena Dolny is an accomplished leader, author and organisational change expert, with experience spanning community development across Africa and senior leadership roles in major institutions.

Totsie Memela-Khambula is a transformational executive and global consciousness coach, known for her work in ethical leadership, governance, and human-centred transformation.
Chapters
  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:01 Meet The Guests
  • 03:37 No Solo Summit
  • 04:21 Totsie Shift Network
  • 07:52 Helena Crisis Support
  • 09:01 Evolving Sherpa Partners
  • 10:06 Ubuntu And Community Roots
  • 14:03 Creating New Communities
  • 15:52 Executive Isolation Signs
  • 17:17 Three Leadership Practices
  • 19:49 Mentorship Vs Sponsorship
  • 23:48 Why Mentors Matter
  • 25:14 Sponsorship Opens Doors
  • 26:21 Coaching Stories and Value
  • 27:43 Mentor Coach Sponsor Defined
  • 30:17 Ubuntu in Crisis
  • 30:48 COVID Grant Pressure Test
  • 34:51 Emotional Regulation Tools
  • 38:01 Personal Shifts and Becoming
  • 43:18 Shift by Design
  • 44:32 Closing Reflections
29 Mar English South Africa Management · Self-Improvement

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