Namibia Future Media Nova 1035 - Karlien on Nova

The Difference Between Boundaries and Control

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Control in relationships isn’t always obvious.
Sometimes it looks like:
- guilt
- monitoring
- isolation
- emotional punishment
- needing constant access or control
Healthy love allows freedom, trust, and individuality.
20 May 4AM English South Africa Music Commentary · Society & Culture

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