Namibia Future Media Nova 1035 - Karlien on Nova

When Someone Likes You But Not Enough to Choose You

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One of the hardest dating truths is this:
Someone can genuinely like you... and still not choose you.
They may enjoy talking to you.
They may enjoy your company.
They may even care about you.
But liking someone and choosing someone are not the same thing.
11 Jun 7AM English South Africa Music Commentary · Society & Culture

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