Do South Africans Date Differently?
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When we think about dating apps or matchmaking services, our minds usually go to the big international names. But what about platforms built specifically for us? For South Africans? This week, we’re looking a little closer to home.
In this episode of Love, Dating and Chaos, I put on my investigator hat—think Sherlock Holmes or Angela Lansbury, but the African edition—and find out if we as South Africans date differently. Because yes, while there are tons of global platforms out there, there are also homegrown options designed with South Africans in mind.
I’m joined by two incredible women who have made a career out of hitching people up. First up is Lieze Wolfaardt, the founder of Smooches, a proudly South African dating app that takes a more thoughtful approach to matching. Then I speak to Michelle De Lange from Mingle—who is, wait for it, a real-life matchmaker. Not an algorithm, not a swipe. An actual human helping other humans find love.
Imagine that.
And just to round things out, I’ve got a story from Xola Ntshinga, who shares his own very weird experience.
In this episode:
00:00 Welcome to Love Dating and Chaos
00:23 Exploring South African Dating Apps
01:05 In-Depth with Lieze Wolfaardt from Smooches
02:07 The Realities of Online Dating
04:12 Personal Experiences and Insights
07:37 Challenges of Modern Relationships
15:14 Story Time: A Man's Perspective on Dating Apps
19:10 Interview with Matchmaker Michelle De Lange
24:26 The Last Straw: Deciding to Move On
25:35 Explaining Infidelity to Children
26:39 Advice for Parents in Troubled Relationships
27:36 Empowering Women in the Dating World
28:24 Challenges of High-Powered Women in Dating
29:18 Men's Preferences and Dating Dynamics
30:27 The Importance of Compatibility
33:30 Personal Dating Experiences and Lessons
35:23 Red Flags and Green Flags in Relationships
42:41 Safety Tips for Modern Dating
In this episode of Love, Dating and Chaos, I put on my investigator hat—think Sherlock Holmes or Angela Lansbury, but the African edition—and find out if we as South Africans date differently. Because yes, while there are tons of global platforms out there, there are also homegrown options designed with South Africans in mind.
I’m joined by two incredible women who have made a career out of hitching people up. First up is Lieze Wolfaardt, the founder of Smooches, a proudly South African dating app that takes a more thoughtful approach to matching. Then I speak to Michelle De Lange from Mingle—who is, wait for it, a real-life matchmaker. Not an algorithm, not a swipe. An actual human helping other humans find love.
Imagine that.
And just to round things out, I’ve got a story from Xola Ntshinga, who shares his own very weird experience.
In this episode:
00:00 Welcome to Love Dating and Chaos
00:23 Exploring South African Dating Apps
01:05 In-Depth with Lieze Wolfaardt from Smooches
02:07 The Realities of Online Dating
04:12 Personal Experiences and Insights
07:37 Challenges of Modern Relationships
15:14 Story Time: A Man's Perspective on Dating Apps
19:10 Interview with Matchmaker Michelle De Lange
24:26 The Last Straw: Deciding to Move On
25:35 Explaining Infidelity to Children
26:39 Advice for Parents in Troubled Relationships
27:36 Empowering Women in the Dating World
28:24 Challenges of High-Powered Women in Dating
29:18 Men's Preferences and Dating Dynamics
30:27 The Importance of Compatibility
33:30 Personal Dating Experiences and Lessons
35:23 Red Flags and Green Flags in Relationships
42:41 Safety Tips for Modern Dating