Episode 10 - Bulelwa Tetyana-Madonsela

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Blending accounting with artistry, strategy with soul, Bulelwa Tetyana-Madonsela reveals how staying true to herself transformed her leadership path. What happens when you stop apologising for being “too much”? What can a CFO learn from drama class? And how can women lead without leaving other women behind?

Find out in episode 10 of the ‘Why She Leads’ Podcast.
16 Jul English South Africa Business · Investing

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00:10 Welcome to the Standard Bank CIB, Why She Leads podcast.
00:15 My name is Judy Dlamini and I will be your host.
00:19 Standard Bank CIB, in this series,
00:22 showcases powerhouse dealmakers
00:27 who just happened to be women.
00:29 It's women that can stand their own anywhere in the world,
00:33 but choose to be at Standard Bank.
00:36 It's women who are inspired to inspire.
00:40 And today, I have the pleasure
00:43 of chatting to the Head of Strategy Enablement in the global markets,
00:49 Bulelwa Tetyana-Madonsela,
00:52 welcome, Bulelwa.
00:54 Thank you.
00:54 It's such an honour to have you today.
00:57 It is an honour to meet you and to have this conversation.
01:00 Oh, great.
01:01 Two barrels?
01:03 Ha, ha, ha..
01:05 Do you always use two barrels?
01:07 So, the Tetyana surname
01:10 I use here within the walls of Standard Bank.
01:13 Yeah.
01:14 And mainly because I've been here for 15 years,
01:18 Wow!
01:19 so my career has really grown
01:22 within this organisation
01:23 as a Tetyana,
01:26 and I got married to Madonsela
01:30 while I was here at the bank.
01:32 And so I just really wanted to
01:35 still maintain that identity within Standard Bank.
01:39 But outside of the Standard Bank, I'm actually just Madonsela.
01:42 Oh, okay, that's interesting.
01:45 It's quite interesting because I have that option of double barrelled,
01:49 and I use my dads surname,
01:51 and when they say I'm a feminist, I'm like, no, I'm just choosing
01:55 one man’s surname over another man's surname.
01:58 There's no women there, so,,,
02:01 I absolutely agree.
02:02 And married with three kids?
02:05 Yes.
02:06 Oh, and how is that, the juggling?
02:10 It's actually been
02:12 a lot of effort.
02:15 It's been a lot of effort, we’re a blended family
02:19 because you probably could tell because I got married
02:23 while I was here, yet I was here for 15 years.
02:26 Eldest is 19,
02:27 so the 19 year old is from my husband's first marriage,
02:31 and the 12 year old is from my husband's first marriage,
02:35 and so I had one child from my first marriage as well.
02:39 So having a blended family has been
02:42 one hell of work.
02:46 And then being a career woman.
02:49 And... but for me, family is so important,
02:53 and it's the one thing that actually grounds me.
02:56 Yeah.
02:56 I am very deliberate in all the different personas
03:03 that I actually encompass.
03:05 Yeah.
03:05 So I'm a person that likes to be present whenever I'm in a particular persona,
03:11 so at home I am wife,
03:14 I am mum, full on.
03:16 Yeah.
03:17 But at work,
03:18 I am a colleague,
03:20 and I've just been privileged
03:24 to be able to have the right support system
03:27 that when I'm at work I don't get distracted with money issues.
03:31 Yeah, that's amazing. Hats off to you.
03:33 That's a lot of juggling.
03:35 It's not just your mainstream juggling.
03:38 If you didn't become a banker,
03:41 I know your background is accounting.
03:43 Ha, ha..
03:44 I know quite a few accountants that I'm related to.
03:47 What would you be?
03:48 because the choice is so wide.
03:50 If I wasn't a banker, wasn't an accountant,
03:54 I'll be in performing arts.
03:56 Oh, are you kidding me?
03:57 Not at all.
03:59 Okay, that's your second career, then.
04:02 I don't know,
04:03 I think right now,
04:05 well, in fact, since I was young, I do it
04:08 rather for recreational purposes, rather than,
04:13 you know, some form of income for me.
04:16 I find it really gives me energy.
04:20 I love singing.
04:22 I love drama.
04:24 I'm also good at art,
04:27 so that's what I would have pursued.
04:31 But I mean, I'm sure, you know, back then
04:34 our parents were not so supportive of those type of careers.
04:38 So I had to choose a career that made sense,
04:41 and I happened to also be good in accounting.
04:46 Well, I'm foretelling that you will have it as a second career
04:50 post-retirement, because people don't retire now.
04:53 Yeah, people don't retire,
04:56 however, interestingly
04:58 for me, my real passion, though, is people.
05:02 Yeah.
05:03 Even though I love performing arts, people are my true passion
05:06 and that is like living my second career, people.
05:10 Oh, I love that,
05:11 and global markets means there's a bit of travelling.
05:17 If you had to choose
05:18 another country to be in and live there,
05:22 what country would that be?
05:24 and why?
05:24 I'll probably choose two.
05:27 Oh, okay.
05:29 And I'm assuming you're referring
05:31 to Africa rather than outside of Africa?
05:34 It's up to you.
05:36 I'm quite lenient.
05:39 Okay, then,
05:41 if it was Africa, I would choose Kenya,
05:46 in Nairobi,
05:48 and if it was outside of Africa, it would most likely be England.
05:53 Okay, and why?
05:56 Kenya,
05:58 I just...
05:59 I feel like Kenya's very similar to South Africa.
06:03 The people are also very similar to South Africa.
06:06 So when I engage with the people,
06:08 you know, within the bank that are from Kenya, very, very similar.
06:12 So I think that adjusting would be easy,
06:14 number one.
06:15 Number two, I just also love the East African culture.
06:21 I think it's
06:22 so rich and there's so much that is in common
06:26 with the Southern African culture, actually, the East Africans,
06:30 but the mere fact that I am Nguni, I do believe that
06:34 we were all once Bantu, which are from East Africa.
06:38 So that's what attracts me to Kenya.
06:41 That's interesting. Yeah. And then England.
06:44 I just.
06:45 I love the corporate vibe in London.
06:50 I really do.
06:51 I find it it's not as brutal
06:55 as America is, because America can be very abrasive,
07:00 but England is really, it's corporate, it's cut-throat,
07:05 but there's, there's some sensibility
07:08 with it rather than the U.S.
07:12 Oh, thats interesting, okay.
07:15 You've been here for 15 years,
07:18 let's walk down memory lane.
07:20 You came in here,
07:22 was it the first job or you?
07:25 Oh, wow.
07:26 No, it wasn't. Okay.
07:28 So I was trained at Deloitte
07:31 as an accountant, and then I decided
07:34 to stay on after my articles as an audit manager.
07:37 So that was my first real job as an audit manager at Deloitte.
07:39 So that was my first real job as an audit manager at Deloitte,
07:42 and I worked in the Durban office for a year
07:45 and then I moved to the Jo’burg office still with their assurance division,
07:50 and then I think that was also for another year or so,
07:55 and then I moved to Standard Bank.
07:56 Yeah, so you never left?
07:58 I did. Ha, ha, ha.
08:01 That's the interesting part.
08:03 I actually left in 2014,
08:06 beginning of 2014, for about ten months.
08:09 Oh, okay.
08:10 And yeah, I went to MMI Holdings and then I came back.
08:14 What pulled you back?
08:16 Was it a push or a pull?
08:18 It was a pull.
08:20 Oh, wow.
08:20 It was a pull, luckily for me.
08:24 The culture.
08:27 I think with Standard Bank,
08:29 we can complain every day around so many things that don't work,
08:34 but I think the reason why a lot of us stay for so long, it's the culture.
08:40 The culture is,
08:41 it's one where if you allow it, you can grow.
08:46 Yeah, you can grow a great deal.
08:48 You know, I made reference to America earlier,
08:52 and when I think about American banks as an example,
08:55 I’m actually glad that I never worked for one, and not really
08:59 because of the culture of being abrasive, but
09:02 because the American bank culture
09:06 actually matches my real personality a lot,
09:10 and I don't think I would have been
09:13 given the opportunity to grow as a person, therefore.
09:16 So in a culture like Standard Bank, I've managed to grow
09:21 as a person and not be in my comfort zone.
09:24 You know, sometimes, you know, people do perceive me
09:27 to be aggressive for a female, and that's my natural zone,
09:32 but in this bank, I've managed to learn to appreciate other people
09:37 that are not like me, and I stretch myself
09:40 to do work and to grow with those people
09:44 and to deliver with people that are not similar to me.
09:48 So that's what I appreciate with this culture.
09:50 Wow, that's amazing.
09:53 The culture has nurtured you outside your comfort zone
09:58 and made you a better person.
09:59 How amazing is that? Absolutely. Yeah.
10:08 You would have been mentored by different people.
10:12 What one lesson sustains you
10:15 from any of the mentors that have mentored you?
10:18 Number one,
10:20 always try to be true to you
10:23 and yourself as a person and your values.
10:27 That's the one true
10:31 lesson,
10:32 I would say that I got.
10:34 The very first coach
10:35 I had when I started articles and I traced my career
10:39 you know, along the years,
10:41 and that's actually been the common thread
10:44 with the mentors or coaches that I've had along the years
10:48 where, you know, I've been made to feel comfortable
10:51 to be myself, but with responsibility.
10:56 Yeah.
10:56 So, it was like I said, if you're going to choose
11:00 to be the aggressive one, there's also consequences.
11:03 Of course.
11:03 Right,
11:04 because some other people won't receive you so positively.
11:08 So it's been a beautiful lesson,
11:10 therefore, for me to know when it's required and when it's not.
11:14 Yeah, I love that.
11:17 Stay true to your values.
11:19 Yeah, well, I have a message from one of your mentors,
11:23 Ha, ha, ha...
11:27 Craig Sagar.
11:29 What I remember about Buli was her willingness to engage
11:33 really gave her what I call a competitive advantage over the rest.
11:39 She really managed to get both the teams
11:41 her peers, juniors and her leadership
11:45 to engage with her and to take the time to ensure that she developed the skills
11:50 that she required and accepted the challenges that were thrown her way.
11:54 And this willingness to engage really helped her with her
11:59 client relations, and she could form
12:01 collaborative relationships with clients
12:04 rather than the sometimes antagonistic
12:08 relationship that audit members of teams have with clients.
12:13 She was always willing to accept challenges and her ability and willingness
12:17 to pass on what she had learned to her colleagues
12:21 also really helped her because you learn while you teach.
12:25 And she enjoyed that.
12:27 And I found that she was also
12:30 one of those who lived by one of my mantras,
12:33 which I insisted in all our teams, is that every day
12:36 you must have some fun, at least one good laugh and learn something new.
12:40 And that seemed to sum Buli up and her attitude to life in general.
12:46 And that ready smile really made a pleasure to work with and well done Buli
12:51 on your career.
12:53 I'm looking forward to engaging in the future.
12:55 How amazing is that? Yeah. Sorry to make you cry
13:00 Yeah.
13:02 Yeah, that was my first coach. Wow.
13:05 Very first coach in my career.
13:07 So obviously he's retired now
13:11 because he was quite senior in years, even at the time,
13:14 he was probably my dad's age when I started my career.
13:19 But what I really appreciated with Craig was just that he was different.
13:24 Yeah.
13:25 He was different to an audit partner, and I loved that.
13:28 One could call him a maverick.
13:31 He just did things differently.
13:35 And like I remember, you know, when you worked with him,
13:40 you know, on a client assignment, he would walk into a room
13:44 and just want you to sit next to him and be like, “Tell me about this job.
13:48 How's it going?”
13:50 Before he reviews any audit files,
13:53 and that, for me was just an exceptional skill
13:57 because from the conversation he would pick up so many things about
14:01 that assignment.
14:03 And, he’s right.
14:05 That's one of the things I learned from him to learn while you're leading others,
14:09 and that is something that I hold very dear.
14:13 I strongly believe that people that are below you
14:13 I strongly believe that people that are below you
14:18 can be smarter than you, and that's okay
14:21 because their action makes you shine, and you also learn through them.
14:25 That's amazing.
14:26 He practices ubuntu.
14:28 He was humane.
14:29 He saw the human being in you.
14:31 And how amazing is that?
14:33 Yeah. Yeah.
14:35 What in your view, we have gender inequality, as you know.
14:40 What in your view, would actually help us to change the status quo
14:46 and have more women in leadership position
14:49 as women leaders and men leaders?
14:52 What, in your view, can be done?
14:56 So I'll start with male leaders.
14:59 Yeah,
15:01 I think it's very important for males to be supportive of females
15:05 in the corporate environment, because whether we like it
15:09 or not, it's still very much a man's world in corporate.
15:14 And so to have a male that supports a female
15:21 and is willing to actually
15:23 invest time in helping her grow,
15:26 for me, I believe that is actually invaluable
15:30 because as you start your career as a female, there's
15:34 certain boardrooms that you don't sit in as well.
15:38 And so to have a male figure who is senior in the organisation
15:43 that is able to speak about you in those boardrooms that you don't sit in,
15:49 it's actually very credible to his colleagues,
15:53 and people now start to suddenly want to work with you
15:56 because they are hearing about this Bulelwa,
15:59 you know, and you get more exposure that way.
16:02 So for me, that's very important that men do need to be supportive of females.
16:08 They need to be part of the female agenda in corporate.
16:12 And then for us females, it's important
16:17 not to be too comfortable being the first and the only.
16:22 We can't be too comfortable with that.
16:25 We need to be able to bring others up with us.
16:28 One of the things I said earlier is that my passion is people.
16:31 And so when I engage with females,
16:36 junior females especially, I really make a point
16:41 to make sure that they feel good about themselves when I engage with them,
16:45 identify things about them that are their strengths,
16:49 because I believe that they can never be another Bulelwa,
16:53 however, you can be the best, Jessica,
16:58 so if I identify the great things
17:00 about Jessica that make her a great person and I talk about those things,
17:07 I harness those skills, when I engage with her, then she's always,
17:12 you know, energised, to do better and to harness that skill about her.
17:17 So that's what I believe I do best,
17:20 and that other female leaders should learn to do more of,
17:24 and in that way you actually have other females that support you every day.
17:28 You know, you can actually call on Jessica anytime
17:32 when you need support or advise, with that skill that she has, you know,
17:37 so in that way, she's brought along as well in that journey and she grows as well.
17:42 That's amazing.
17:43 We do know that you have mentees because one of them has sent something for you.
17:50 Let's hear from Omphemetse Setshogwe.
17:54 I started working closely
17:57 with Bulelwa when she was the CFO
18:00 for global markets and I had joined the Africa Regions team
18:06 and she has been such a huge pillar of support for me.
18:10 If there's one person who I can honestly say,
18:13 they show up for me, it would be Bulelwa.
18:17 During the most critical points in my career.
18:19 She's helped me work through a lot of noise, given me perspective,
18:23 and contributed so much to the person I have grown into.
18:28 She's helped me focus on what is important and given me so many pearls of wisdom.
18:33 I appreciate the time she has invested in me.
18:36 She has celebrated my successes with me and supported me during
18:39 my biggest challenges, be it personal or work wise, I honestly see her as my work
18:45 big sister, a role model
18:47 and a phenomenal leader. Thank you for everything that you've done.
18:51 Bulelwa.
18:52 Wow.
18:54 I feel like clapping,
18:55 Ha, ha, ha...
18:57 well done.
18:58 Well done.
19:01 What would you say
19:02 to your 20 year old, knowing what you know now?
19:06 Sho!
19:06 Knowing what I know now, what I would say to my 20 year old is
19:11 it is okay not to be a fighter for everyone.
19:17 It's okay to know that sometimes
19:20 that battle is not yours to fight
19:23 And live with that. Yeah.
19:24 And be content. Yeah. How do you unwind?
19:28 Ha,ha,ha...
19:30 Sho!
19:32 A lot of things.
19:34 Sho, wow, I...
19:37 a part of me is a creative, right?
19:41 So I read, I sing.
19:46 I can't wait to hear you singing.
19:49 I do Pilates.
19:51 I've just picked up golf as well,
19:55 and I spend time with my kids and my husband.
19:59 We're a family that really loves laughing,
20:02 so we laugh a lot about the silliest of things.
20:06 You know, it could be a child saying a word incorrectly,
20:11 you know,
20:12 my daughter could be saying Alona,
20:15 and we laugh about that because that's one of her friends names,
20:18 you know,
20:19 and so that's that's what we do as a family.
20:22 We laugh a lot, and we don't have to be out there doing a particular activity,
20:29 we make fun in our space as well.
20:32 That's amazing. Do you have a bucket list?
20:35 Ha, ha..
20:36 Not really.
20:37 Not really.
20:38 I haven’t constructed one, but yes there’s things that I do have in mind
20:43 that I’d like to do.
20:44 Yeah, are you happy to share one?
20:47 I'll share one.
20:49 I am very, very much
20:52 looking forward to one day traveling to Turkey and Israel.
20:56 Oh, wow!
20:57 I believe those two countries
21:00 are spiritual birthplaces.
21:02 And for me,
21:05 going there and just checking some of the apostles
21:10 that we've learned about, saints that we've learned about in the Bible
21:13 would be just those goosebump moments.
21:18 So I’d really love to do that one day.
21:20 Yeah.
21:21 Yeah, I pray that you tick that bucket list soon, but well done.
21:27 Thank you.
21:28 You've done well, lifting as you rise and you show what's possible
21:35 to a 20 year old mtata a ten year old,
21:38 you know, and I wish you everything of the best.
21:41 It was an honour to meet you and have a chat with you.
21:43 Thank you, Bulelwa.
21:44 Thank you.
21:45 I feel honoured to be in your presence, to be honest,
21:48 and thank you for making it so easy.
21:51 Thank you. And your humility really appreciate it.
21:54 Thanks Bulelwa.

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